Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Tomorrow would have been 5 years together. . . . . .just needed to get that out.

5 years of what i thought was forever,  i thought wrong.

 Some days im amazing, i feel strong and independent, focused and full of self confidence.  Others sad, ugly and stupid.  The good days are starting to outnumber the bad, So Yeah!! 

He seems to have a knack for knowing when i am feeling great and starting to think, "Wow i really am better off without him."  and then he calls or emails and i get sucked back down in my little hole of self loathing.  Today was bad,  Im not looking forward to tomorrow, but i am seeing glimmers of the light at the end of the tunnel.

I am trying to stretch towards that light like a sunflower stretches for the sun.  Bending, turning,  putting myself in new situations and experiences in order to move on and be happy with myself.

1 comment:

Robynbeth said...

I think they have beepers which announce our emotions. Heaven forbid we feel good without them by our sides. Go figure. I got a text message from an ex this week 30 seconds after I began to think about how wonderful life if. Well, life is still wonderful, and he is still an ass.

Many hugs to you darling.